You’ve done the work. But something still feels stuck

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You’ve done the work. But something still feels stuck.

 

You’ve done therapy. The healing work. The inner child work. The shadow dives. Had the hard conversations. You’ve gone deep and still, life somehow feels like you’re pushing a ball up a hill:

  • You stay in the job that’s “fine” but feels like it’s quietly draining your soul
  • You over give or hold back in love, looping through dynamics you swore you’d healed
  • You’re remembering who you really are… but afraid of what you might lose if you say yes to that version of you
  • You feel like you’re circling something big but can’t quite touch it

This isn’t about doing more.
This is about releasing what no longer belongs in your body, your energy, your story.

Because the truth is:

This is Karma.

Karma isn’t punishment.

But it is yours, until you learn to let it go.

And it’s time to let it go so that you don’t spend another year stuck in the same relationship dynamics, people-pleasing your way through burnout, or questioning whether you’re too much or not enough. So that you can finally feel seen, steady in your choices, and confident showing up as the version of you who doesn’t have to hold it all together just to feel safe.

So that you can begin the unwinding, out of the spiral of old stories, and into a new rhythm. One that feels like ease. Like flow. Like a dance you were born to remember.

 

 

Join the Unwinding Now

Our Story: How This Began

We (Jess and Kathy) met in Santa Fe at the 2024 High Desert Human Design Conference. On the final day, we attended a one-day karma clearing workshop led by Chetan Parkyn and it changed everything.

 It was powerful. Life-altering.

 

There was an immediate shift… but the real change came after. The next morning, we both felt something had opened. A soft but steady sense that something was ready to be released. We couldn’t stop reflecting on it. We knew we had to follow the thread.

Fast forward: We became fast friends. Jess encouraged Kathy to accept the invitation to join her and continue this training in Austin. This time, it wasn’t just a day, we had two full days to dive into the process. And something deeper landed.

We walked out of that weekend changed, but not in a way that’s easy to explain. There was a lightness in our bodies, but also a sense of purpose that didn’t feel heavy or urgent. It was more like joy. Quiet, grounded joy. Not a motivational high. Not a burst of clarity that faded a day later. Something deeper had shifted and even though we couldn’t fully name it at the time, we knew it was real.

It was a powerful reclamation of radical self-trust. We had released stories we didn’t even realize were still lodged in our system.

 

As a 6/2 with a second line body, I (Kathy) could feel the call immediately. Invitations started arriving within hours. Collaborations. Clients. I was asked to lead a dance event at the Human Design conference. Everything felt clearer, more aligned, less effortful, but not because I did more. Because I let go.

Over the past few months, Jess and I have lovingly tweaked and shaped our own version of this work. We’ve made it ours. And after hosting multiple masterclasses, the feedback we received confirmed what we knew:

This work is needed. And it's time to offer it more deeply.

 

 

“I was at your free event and shared how transformational it was. Going through the unconscious moon gave me so much clarity around all this stuck emotional stuff I hadn’t been able to name. In the middle of what felt like a mess, I finally understood how Gate 30 connected to love, my grandmother, and a deeper part of my lineage. That same night, I went to a 5Rhythms dance and my Oma came in and danced with me! We cleared the energy. That’s how powerful your workshop was. It truly changed so much for me. I’m really excited for this next chapter of your work because this is massive, and people are going to feel it.” 

— Juliana Christine

 

“This work (in the Masterclass) brings the Human Design unconscious moon and Gene Keys attraction sphere together. Mine is 50.2, and the shadows are avoidance of responsibility and irresponsibility. As a single mom with a ton of responsibilities, I was like, ugh, no way! But when Jess asked, ‘What might this pattern be trying to teach or protect?’ I was reminded of past life stories where avoidance was actually a protest against broken systems. That same pattern shows up now. I resist what isn’t aligned with my values. The high frequency is authenticity and harmony, and I’m learning to meet hard parts of life with more equilibrium. Really cool to find that new layer.” 
— Kaisie Dailey

 

“Great class! I really appreciate what it brought up for me so far.  The meditation brought up how my grandmother… was a rebel in her time… and as she passed, she regretted that decision and spending so many years alone. My mother… taught us girls that if we want to survive in the world, we needed to make ourselves indispensable… never show people you might be smart. I had decided at a very early age never to be like her.

 

This class came at the perfect time. I recently received a contract… my whole body screamed, f off! I sometimes doubted my sacral response, but not this time. Loud and clear. Now I see I can do it with Strength… no more hiding… letting the Universe bring in better for me. I have other avenues of revenue… I have not had time to devote to the creative side of me. At this moment I think my joy is going to be in my Strength. Choose between the best of what my grandmother and mother bestowed upon me, and move forward with trust. Thank you both for a great class!!”
— Jeanmarie

 

Meet your Guides

 

Jess Tilly

A 4/6 Sacral Generator, she is a Dream Design™ Coach who weaves together the modalities of Human Design and Habit Formation to help others step into a life they truly love. Her work begins with guiding individuals back to their true selves, offering permission to be fully and authentically who they are. Along the way, she helps reconnect them to their essence of self, that of love. Through the process of shedding what no longer aligns, she supports the unfolding of their deepest, most aligned expression.

 

Kathy Bochonko

A 6/2 Emotional Projector. Intuitive Human Design Mentor and Guide to Radical Self-Trust. She’s the host of Real Human Design Stories and cohost of weekly Transit Talks with Jess Tilly. Known for blending deep insight with playful energy, Kathy helps people simplify their lives, express their true selves, and shine their light. Whether mentoring, podcasting, or leading a dance floor, she reminds us of this simple truth: You’re not broken. You’re a freaking disco ball here to shine your light. 

 

What This Is (and Isn’t)

This is not just a class.
This is not just a course.
This is a guided monthly practice of real energetic and emotional release designed to help you gently unwind the patterns that keep you stuck, so you can make space for more clarity, connection, and choice in your life.

  • We take one placement from your Human Design chart each month
  • We guide you through it using our unique karma-by-design process
  • You begin to release the stories that no longer serve you and unwind the tension that’s been living in your body, your relationships, and your nervous system

This isn’t about gaining knowledge, it’s about integrating change through slow, steady release.

 

What You’ll Experience

You’ll unravel karmic and conditioned patterns so that you can:

  • Stop reliving the same dynamic with different people
  • Respond from clarity instead of emotional noise
  • Trust your voice, your timing, and your inner knowing
  • Reclaim your energy from loops that have shaped you for generations
  • Create new relational blueprints for yourself and your family
  • Finally stop shrinking to stay safe, and take up space as your full self

 

What It Looks Like

Each month includes:

  • One 90-minute Group Karma Clearing Session to open the month’s theme and guide you through the placement we’re working with. These group calls are deep, intentional spaces where you’ll begin the energetic and emotional process of releasing stuck patterns and old narratives.
  • One 60-minute Group Integration Call mid-month, where you can reflect on what’s coming up, share your experience, and feel supported by a circle that truly gets it.
  • One placement per month from your Human Design chart, chosen with intention and used as a catalyst for deep emotional release and soul-level transformation, each one helping you unwind inherited patterns that have shaped your identity, relationships, and sense of self. We draw from the Gene Keys, Quantum Human Design™, and Chetan Parkin’s Karma Clearing by Design™ (with full credit to their influence, though this is now distinctly our own process)..
  • A private Facebook group where you can connect in real time with others in the process. Ask questions, receive insight, or simply be witnessed when something moves.

This is a safe and sacred space where the unwinding is welcome, and your truth is honored.

 

🗓 When Are the Live Calls?

We’ll meet twice a month on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday at 2 PM ET.

Can’t make it live? No worries, all calls are recorded and uploaded within 24 hours, so you can move through the process in your own time.

 

Founding Member Invitation + Legacy Pricing

This is a legacy offering. A foundational expression of the work we know we’ll be doing for years to come.

As a founding member, you receive:

  • 🌟 Early access to this body of work as it takes shape
  • 🌟 Locked-in pricing for the life of your membership
  • 🌟 First access to any future offerings

Investment:

  • $47/month
  • $497/year (save $67)

🌀 First 5 annual members receive a 60-minute Human Design reading with Jess or Kathy (your choice). Value $297-$397

Pricing will increase to $97/month or $997/year for future cohorts.

 

The Unwinding - Monthly Plan

You’ve done the work. But something still feels stuck. You’ve done therapy. The healing work. The inner child work. The shadow dives. Had the hard conversations. You’ve gone deep—and still, life somehow feels like you’re pushing a ball up a hill: You stay in the job that’s “fine” but feels like it’s quietly draining your soul You over give or hold back in love, looping through dynamics you swore you’d healed You’re remembering who you really are… but afraid of what you might lose if you say yes to that version of you You feel like you’re circling something big—but can’t quite touch it This isn’t about doing more.This is about releasing what no longer belongs in your body, your energy, your story. Because the truth is:Karma isn’t punishment.But it is yours—until you learn to let it go so that you don’t spend another year stuck in the same relationship dynamics, people-pleasing your way through burnout, or questioning whether you’re too much or not enough. So that you can finally feel seen, steady in your choices, and confident showing up as the version of you who doesn’t have to hold it all together just to feel safe.  

$47.00 USD every month

The Unwinding - Annual Plan

You’ve done the work. But something still feels stuck. You’ve done therapy. The healing work. The inner child work. The shadow dives. Had the hard conversations. You’ve gone deep—and still, life somehow feels like you’re pushing a ball up a hill: You stay in the job that’s “fine” but feels like it’s quietly draining your soul You over give or hold back in love, looping through dynamics you swore you’d healed You’re remembering who you really are… but afraid of what you might lose if you say yes to that version of you You feel like you’re circling something big—but can’t quite touch it This isn’t about doing more.This is about releasing what no longer belongs in your body, your energy, your story. Because the truth is:Karma isn’t punishment.But it is yours—until you learn to let it go so that you don’t spend another year stuck in the same relationship dynamics, people-pleasing your way through burnout, or questioning whether you’re too much or not enough. So that you can finally feel seen, steady in your choices, and confident showing up as the version of you who doesn’t have to hold it all together just to feel safe.  

$497.00 USD every year

❓Frequently Asked Questions

What if I can’t make the live calls?

No worries, every call is recorded and uploaded within 24 hours. You can move through the process at your own pace while still being part of the community.

 

Do I need to know Human Design or Gene Keys to join?

Not at all. We guide you every step of the way. This isn’t a course or certification, it’s a guided experience, grounded in your unique chart but focused on how it feels in your body and life.

 

What if I’m in a big life transition?

Then you’re right on time. This work meets you exactly where you are and helps you gently release what’s been getting in your way, so you can move forward with more clarity and trust.

 

Is this just for women?

While our language and stories often center the experience of women, this space is open to all. What matters most is that you feel called to the work.

 

How long does the membership last?

This is a month-to-month experience (or annual if you choose that option). You can stay as long as it supports you. As a founding member, your pricing is locked in as long as you remain subscribed.

 

I’ve done a lot of healing work already. Will this really be different?

This work doesn’t ask you to fix, figure out, or “do more.” It invites you to unwind what’s been quietly living under the surface and shift from looping patterns to embodied trust. The difference isn’t in what you learn. It’s in what you finally release.

 

How much time will this take?

This is designed to work with your life, not add more pressure to it. You can simply show up for the live calls (or watch the replays), and that alone will begin to shift things. For those who feel called to go deeper, we provide journal prompts and contemplative tools as well as community to support your integration between sessions.

Some people feel the shift immediately. Others find that journaling, using tarot or oracle cards, EFT, or other personal practices help deepen the experience. However you engage, you’ll be met right where you are and supported in a way that fits your own rhythm and energy.


This Is Where It Ends (and Begins)

Something has to shift. And only you can make that happen.

You can keep spiraling through the same emotional noise or you can choose to gently unwind what’s been keeping you stuck.

This is your moment. A chance to honor what brought you here and decide what kind of future you’re ready to claim.

The karmic pattern ends here.
The new pattern begins here.

We can’t wait to get started.


🌀 Not sure if now is the right time?

We get it. Life is full. But if you’re feeling even a little tug toward this work, we want you to know:

This first series is intentionally designed to flow together and the live kickoff sets the tone for what’s to come. While we may open doors again later, joining now gives you:

✨ A full-circle experience from the start

✨ Our lowest-ever legacy pricing

✨ A bonus Human Design reading if you’re one of the first five annual members

This isn’t just another thing on your to-do list.

It’s the beginning of a new pattern.

And if you’re ready, we’d be honored to walk it with you.